I can’t help but notice so many people are paralyzed by fear at the moment. It makes me sad and I have to admit a little bit frustrated to watch brilliant, talented people limit themselves.

I keep hearing excuse upon excuse why let’s call her “Matilda” can’t get her business off the ground. Or why there are no descent guys out there. It’s just not true!

I may sound harsh and even unsympathetic but that is not the case. I know what it’s like to think like Matilda. I’ve been there and as long as you think you can’t do anything about your circumstances, you won’t be able to. Now that truly is a sad outcome.

Do you want to mope around and feel sorry for yourself that your bank balance isn’t where it should be? Are you going to blame the last government, the new government and the economy?

I encourage, I urge you to have faith in you! Why?

Reason #1 You can achieve anything when you have faith in you. You can have your best financial year yet. You can be fulfilled in your career. Your life can have meaning and purpose. You can meet your soul mate and share your lives together.

Reason #2 You inspire other people to break through their limitations. What a gift to motivate and instill faith in people you meet, from close friends to strangers. I’ve heard wonderful stories of how someone overwhelmed and contemplating suicide has turned their life around.

Reason #3 You live a life of happiness, fulfillment and peace. Even when there is chaos around you, feeling good can be your daily experience. Pass that serene energy to others. People will feel better simply by being in your presence.

Affirm: “I have faith in myself.”

I must confess I’m so happy I got to see my Dad this past week. He came out to California on a mission…

… to get his skydiving B License and he got it 57 jumps later! There’s a photo of us celebrating at Anisette Brasserie in Santa Monica (the food was amazing).

This week’s intuition secret: 3 Reasons You Must Have Faith will help you stay on track when you feel like giving up.

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I must confess I’ve been quite hormonal (week 15 of pregnancy fast approaching). The other night I began to cry because my husband Nick hugged me when I was irritable. It reminded me of how easy it is to sabotage oneself when love comes into your life.

People often say to me, “When will I meet “The One?” or “Will I end up alone? I can’t help worry as all my friends around me are getting married”.

It is hard to fathom that one blocks oneself from allowing love into one’s life. It is a painful realization when you see what’s been holding you back (I’ve been there). It’s also challenging when you have lost that magic spark in your current relationship and you may wonder if you will feel trapped and be bored for the rest of your days.

This week’s intuition secret: How To Recognize Your Soul Mate will help you spot the signs of a potential love match.

Would you like a 7-step plan to release toxic relationships from your life and to attract your Soul Mate? Sign up for free now to the Soul Mates Connection FREE teleseminar.

I hope you’ll join me for my very revealing, insightful and empowering Soul Mates secrets on Tuesday January 27 at 6:00pm Pacific Time.

You will recognize a soul mate because the existence of their vibration has matching color frequencies or sound waves to you. Unless you are clairvoyant (psychic vision) or are clairaudient (extra sensory hearing), you will not be able to see or hear the evidence of a soul mate. A soul is naturally clairsentient (the ability to feel energy). When we open our hearts, our aptitude to sense energy is heightened. You will feel the resonance of a soul mate inside your physical body.

In the presence of a soul mate, you may begin to tingle beneath your skin or get a warm fuzzy expansive feeling where the air touches your skin. This is where your aura resides. If you make love with this person, your whole body may begin to vibrate. You will feel like the cells in your body are humming, buzzing. If you haven’t experienced this yet, you’ll definitely know when it’s happening to you!

The challenge of meeting a soul mate is you are this amazing energy of existence that lives within self-created limitations. You only see elements of who you are. When you move into the flow of life’s currents, a sense of connection is experienced. Except you keep stepping out of the flow because you unconsciously fear being carried to a dangerous place. This locale is The Great Mystery. This is your soul’s home. There is nothing to fear here.

Why in The Wizard of Oz does Dorothy click her red shoes three times and say, “There’s no place like home”? A wise part of her knows that there is a place where she may experience true love. The undeveloped parts of her have to go through initiations that will test her desire for love.

In The Alchemist the young boy concludes at the end of his adventures that the best place to be is home. He needed to visit environments different from his existence to awaken gratitude for what he already had. It may be hard to understand this, especially when you have responsibilities of paying bills, holding down a job, family responsibilities, and a string of failed relationships.

If you could see the full magnificence of who you are, you would never fear again. You would always feel love. This is the soul’s purpose. Will you listen to the needs of your soul?

Affirm: “I am open to the loving guidance of my soul. I willingly create space for love in my life now.”

I must confess it’s been a week of purging as we moved home and cleared over six car loads of belongings to Goodwill! I’ve come to love letting go of things that no longer serve me because I know that space is created for what I am focused next on bringing into my life.

Here’s a photo of me with Nick celebrating his birthday last week during our move. Taking a couple of hours off with friends, gave me a boost of energy and I’m so grateful my morning sickness has disappeared. Thank you for your wonderful emails, cards, voicemails and gifts for my pregnancy! I was most touched.

I noticed a theme this week, that many people who are visionary and ambitious are very tough on themselves to the point where perfectionism is unproductive. Do you have realistic expectations about what you wish to achieve in 2009? Do you truly know what you want? Are your intentions in alignment with your desires?

It is important to remember it is never too late to course correct. This week’s intuition secret: 3 Steps to Clear Intentions will help you see what blocks you in preparation to get what your heart desires.

Would you like a 7-step plan to release toxic relationships from your life? Sign up for free now to the Soul Mates Connection FREE teleseminar.

Perhaps I’ll see you Sunday? On January 18, I’m teaching a day of Psychic Development Workshop Live in person. If you want to stop stressing and start trusting your intuition; the tools you’ll learn will empower you to make the right decisions. To reserve your space (seating is limited), please call Aura Shop: 310-584-9998.