I must confess I’ve been very good this past week, well I still can’t help watching Gossip Girl because it reminds of my life growing up in London except it’s set in New York. A good TV soap helps me relax after all my psychic sessions.

Here’s me at my Bodhi Tree book signing of “Unleash The Psychic In You,” celebrating with my beautiful friend Kim Castle. Lesley Bohm, thanks for taking these photos (she also did the photography for my book cover).

I’m positively blown away by how fast everyone in my Wealth and Success Secrets tele-course is getting connected to guidance from their Higher Self and we’ve still got another three sessions to go! If you’d like to join us it’s not too late, as you’ll get the audio from our previous calls. Join now: http://www.wealthandsuccessprogram.com

Oh and there’s a new FREE teleseminar “Soul Mates Connection” that I’ve specially prepared for you. Sign up here.

Now get up close and personal with me as I reveal what blocks you from Channeling your Spirit Guides and connecting to your Higher Self. Click here to see Confessions of a Psychic TV.

I’m always in awe when someone in spirit gives information I couldn’t possibly know. If I wasn’t having the experience, it would be hard for me to believe.

Your loved ones are often close by. They want to protect, guide, teach and heal your pain.

The more aware you become of the spirit world, the easier it will be for you to receive guidance from your spirit guides.

Who are your spirit guides?

Your spirit guides may be a deceased grandparent, parent, sibling, soul mate or best friend. You often have more than one spirit guide because they are present to support you in various areas of your life.

Here are 7 signs spirit may be trying to communicate with you.

# 1 The message is in the music. Have you ever heard a song on the radio and felt like it was speaking to you? Did you notice how the words stood out? Did you become emotional?

# 2 It’s frightfully cold in here. If you feel very cold, shivery or have goose-bumps in a room that has no reason to be cold, it is likely that there is spirit activity in this place. Spirit vibrates at a higher frequency.

# 3 Visitations in your dreams. Have you dreamt of one of your deceased loved ones and felt like it was very real? It is easier for spirit to connect with you while you sleep because your mind is at peace and you are receptive.

# 4 You feel a spirit’s presence. Just because you can’t see a loved one doesn’t mean they aren’t there. If you sense it, know you are not making it up.

# 5 You hear your own voice inside your head. When a deceased loved one speaks with you, it usually sounds like your own voice however it has a distinct feeling to it. You’ll know because it is different from what you would think or say.

# 6 Touched by an angel. Have you ever felt like someone is touching the top of your head, tip of your nose or is tickling your arm, yet nothing is visible?

#7 Electrical disturbances. Spirit love communicating through light bulbs, telephones, TVs and computers. Have you ever seen the lights flicker on and off? Or heard a lot of static on the telephone line? See if you can start noticing the difference between an electrical problem and when spirit is trying to make it’s presence known to you.

The Other Side.

Becoming aware of the spirit world takes time. It’s like switching the light off in a room and not being able to see in the dark. As time passes, your eyes adjust to the dark. You begin to see things you couldn’t see before. This is how the realm of spirit operates. You will see.

• Have you suffered a broken heart?
• Does asking for what you want in a relationship make you uneasy?
• Are you longing for a daily dose of feeling high on love?
• Do you wonder if exquisitely true love only exists in fairytales?

I believe everyone has a special mate that wants to share their life with you.

The biggest mistake I see people make is they shut down their emotions.

It is common for my most heartbroken clients to say they have no feeling in their heart and that they are numb.

Numbness is a sign that you have an intense reservoir of emotions beneath the surface that need to be released so they may heal.

When you stuff down your emotions, deny them, pretend they don’t exist; you create more pain and blockages at an energetic level than you can ever imagine.

How do I know this?

I see it at a psychic level of awareness and you can see it to (read chapter 8 of Unleash The Psychic In You).

Do you know what happens when you ignore your soul’s needs?

Your higher self (the wise inner counselor) will kick your butt in every area of your life. You’ll think other people are causing you pain however as you become more aware, it may be an uncomfortable yet liberating experience to see that you created this reality for yourself. Hence my spirit guides use the term “spiritual butt kicking.”

You are meant to experience a life filled with love. When you overcome the fear of feeling pain, it will be replaced with a deep healing in your heart that will surround your aura in love, making you magnetic to true love.

You get to be your own Cupid. How cool is that!

#1 Don’t Believe Their Hype Just because you see an advert in a magazine or online that says someone has been a successful psychic for twenty years and they can help you, this does not necessarily mean they are the real deal. I’ve seen ads where psychics say they’ve read for Presidents and charge $300 for 20 minutes and yet their ability does not reflect their financial rate. The most expensive psychics are not always the best.

#2 Preying on Vulnerable People Having done over 1,000 psychic readings, Approximately 80% of my clients are going through some type of challenge. The other 20% are looking to deepen their relationships, create more success and deepen spiritual awareness. When people are vulnerable, they can be desperate for answers and will go to any psychic to alleviate their pain. I have heard of situations where the person has left the reading more distraught than when they arrived for their session. If you are in an emotional state and have any doubt about the psychic, do not commit to a session with them.

#3 A Psychic is not God A psychic reads your energy field and accesses information from your past, present or future. Do not let any psychic have power over your decision making process. A psychic’s role is to support you as a guide and a counselor so you can make the best choice. A psychic reading is meant to be preventative medicine. It is poor conduct and irresponsible when a psychic says something like “You are going to die in the next two years.” “You’re husband will have an affair.” “You’re going to loose money.” I remember being at a New Age event and this guy comes up to me. He tells me he’s a professional palm reader, before I could respond, he’d grabbed my hand, turned it over and said “Oh, you’re going to die in a year and there’s nothing you can do about it.” I was horrified. I knew his energy was off and I dismissed him however for someone susceptible to this information, it would have been quite traumatic. Listen to information however come to your own conclusions. If you are uncomfortable in a reading and the psychic is abusing your boundaries, leave.

#4 Manipulation and Power-play Watch out for psychics and healers that claim to be channeling extra-terrestrial beings. I have seen their egos get in the way. They will give incorrect or hurtful information to get what they want. Most of the time their actions come from their unconscious mind. They are not aware that their ego is giving misleading guidance. If what you are being told feels hurtful towards you rather than showing the truth of a situation, the reading is not serving the purpose of helping you. Do not be frightened to explain that the information is not true for you. Ultimately the most important person to trust is you.

#5 Why is the Psychic Behaving Like The Spanish Inquisition? It’s a bad sign when you go for a reading and the psychic starts asking you lots of questions to extract information from you. For example “Are you married? Do you have children? Are you going through a divorce? I’ve got a dead relative coming through for you. Is it your Dad, brother, ex-boyfriend?” I find the best readings are when I don’t know the client because it gives them confirmation about the guidance they are receiving. A good psychic will be able to tune straight in.

5 Tips to Help You Pick The Best Psychic For You

1. Get a referral from a friend or reputable metaphysical bookstore.
2. Trust your gut. Just because someone said they had an amazing reading with a psychic, doesn’t mean they are the right psychic for you. It depends on their vibration being a match with yours.
3. Be open when going for a reading. If you put up a wall and try to test the psychic, you’ll be wasting your time and money.
4. Are they friendly? Professional? Supportive?
5. Psychic Checklist: Questions to AskHow long have you been psychic reading?
   How will you tune in to get the information I need?
   How many readings have you done?
   What percentage of your clients return? If yes, how often?
   Do you honor client confidentiality?
   Do you teach workshops?

I strongly recommend carrying out a little research before committing to the reading. This will maximize your connection with the psychic, confirm that the psychic is authentic and set you up for a positive experience.

Exercise! Exercise! Exercise! We are bombarded by unseen energies every day. Even if you are brilliant at psychic protection, energy may still attach itself to you in a moment of tiredness, or when the mind gets distracted. That’s when negative energy may deposit itself in the unconscious mind and guess what? You don’t know about it because it’s in your unconscious. Yes, even I absorb negative energy regardless of having done energy work and psychic reading for fifteen years. That’s why I’ve learned to love exercising. Moving your body will dislodge the negative energy that has trapped itself within the unconscious parts of yourself. My energy field gets a fabulous cleansing, leaving me right as rain to enjoy each moment of my day!