You will recognize a soul mate because the existence of their vibration has matching color frequencies or sound waves to you. Unless you are clairvoyant (psychic vision) or are clairaudient (extra sensory hearing), you will not be able to see or hear the evidence of a soul mate. A soul is naturally clairsentient (the ability to feel energy). When we open our hearts, our aptitude to sense energy is heightened. You will feel the resonance of a soul mate inside your physical body.

In the presence of a soul mate, you may begin to tingle beneath your skin or get a warm fuzzy expansive feeling where the air touches your skin. This is where your aura resides. If you make love with this person, your whole body may begin to vibrate. You will feel like the cells in your body are humming, buzzing. If you haven’t experienced this yet, you’ll definitely know when it’s happening to you!

The challenge of meeting a soul mate is you are this amazing energy of existence that lives within self-created limitations. You only see elements of who you are. When you move into the flow of life’s currents, a sense of connection is experienced. Except you keep stepping out of the flow because you unconsciously fear being carried to a dangerous place. This locale is The Great Mystery. This is your soul’s home. There is nothing to fear here.

Why in The Wizard of Oz does Dorothy click her red shoes three times and say, “There’s no place like home”? A wise part of her knows that there is a place where she may experience true love. The undeveloped parts of her have to go through initiations that will test her desire for love.

In The Alchemist the young boy concludes at the end of his adventures that the best place to be is home. He needed to visit environments different from his existence to awaken gratitude for what he already had. It may be hard to understand this, especially when you have responsibilities of paying bills, holding down a job, family responsibilities, and a string of failed relationships.

If you could see the full magnificence of who you are, you would never fear again. You would always feel love. This is the soul’s purpose. Will you listen to the needs of your soul?

Affirm: “I am open to the loving guidance of my soul. I willingly create space for love in my life now.”

I must confess I’ve been very good this past week, well I still can’t help watching Gossip Girl because it reminds of my life growing up in London except it’s set in New York. A good TV soap helps me relax after all my psychic sessions.

Here’s me at my Bodhi Tree book signing of “Unleash The Psychic In You,” celebrating with my beautiful friend Kim Castle. Lesley Bohm, thanks for taking these photos (she also did the photography for my book cover).

I’m positively blown away by how fast everyone in my Wealth and Success Secrets tele-course is getting connected to guidance from their Higher Self and we’ve still got another three sessions to go! If you’d like to join us it’s not too late, as you’ll get the audio from our previous calls. Join now: http://www.wealthandsuccessprogram.com

Oh and there’s a new FREE teleseminar “Soul Mates Connection” that I’ve specially prepared for you. Sign up here.

Now get up close and personal with me as I reveal what blocks you from Channeling your Spirit Guides and connecting to your Higher Self. Click here to see Confessions of a Psychic TV.

• Have you suffered a broken heart?
• Does asking for what you want in a relationship make you uneasy?
• Are you longing for a daily dose of feeling high on love?
• Do you wonder if exquisitely true love only exists in fairytales?

I believe everyone has a special mate that wants to share their life with you.

The biggest mistake I see people make is they shut down their emotions.

It is common for my most heartbroken clients to say they have no feeling in their heart and that they are numb.

Numbness is a sign that you have an intense reservoir of emotions beneath the surface that need to be released so they may heal.

When you stuff down your emotions, deny them, pretend they don’t exist; you create more pain and blockages at an energetic level than you can ever imagine.

How do I know this?

I see it at a psychic level of awareness and you can see it to (read chapter 8 of Unleash The Psychic In You).

Do you know what happens when you ignore your soul’s needs?

Your higher self (the wise inner counselor) will kick your butt in every area of your life. You’ll think other people are causing you pain however as you become more aware, it may be an uncomfortable yet liberating experience to see that you created this reality for yourself. Hence my spirit guides use the term “spiritual butt kicking.”

You are meant to experience a life filled with love. When you overcome the fear of feeling pain, it will be replaced with a deep healing in your heart that will surround your aura in love, making you magnetic to true love.

You get to be your own Cupid. How cool is that!

I must confess it’s been a busy week preparing for the INTUITION SECRETS Teleseminar that I’m delighted to host next Tuesday August 26, 2008 at 5:00 PM Pacific Time.

I’ll be unleashing my favorite intuition technique for the first time that will support you in trusting your own inner guidance. I’ll also be announcing a special bonus gift on the call.

Did you sign up yet?

Never, never, never, never give up on a Soul Mate connection

Winston (my dog) has met his soul mate. Her name is Mellow and they are ridiculously cute together. They fell in love on the beach in Malibu a few weeks ago. It truly was love at first sight.

This weekend Mellow’s owner Stacy came over to our house and Winston and Mellow had their first official date. Here’s a photo of them together (Winston’s on the right).

Do You Know Why You Can’t See Mistakes Before You Make Them?

Today I share the second of three reasons with solutions as to why you’re not aware of what’s blocking you from getting what you want. Look out for tip #3 next week.

Happy Intuition Development!

Do you believe in true love or have you lost hope?

Are you someone who believes:

A) I’m never going to meet my soul mate

B) I used to believe in soul mates until I had a string of frustrating relationships

C) I’m not meeting anyone I like at all!

Please do not give up if you relate to any or all of the above comments. Believe me, I know, I’ve been there and it hurts. The good news is you can attract a soul mate. It’s not too late!

Would you like to know about the different type of soul mate relationships that exist? Why they exist? How to create the best relationships for yourself?

Remember you have FREE WILL.

I promise I will share more. For now, here are 3 tips to ensure you call in the right mate and that you make you’re present relationships the best they can be.

1) Treat Yourself with Love

Some people think this means they will become self absorbed and selfish. Then they feel guilty and self criticism kicks in. Oh the voice of that inner critic is so very quiet. Deadly subtle at times, they don’t even notice it. Can you relate?

When was the last time you took really good care of yourself?

My recommendations:

a) Book a lovely spa treatment
b) Arrange a hike with a friend in the fresh air
c) Have some quality time with your best friend (turn your cell phone off and be fully present)

Why do any of the above suggestions?

Because they get you in touch with your soul. When you’re connected to your soul desires this leads to;

2) Listen to Your Soul and You’ll Meet Your Ideal Mate

You have to know what you want. If you’re not clear about who you wish to spend your days with, you’re not going to get what you want. Get quiet and listen inside.

When you love yourself, take good care of yourself, you develop a sense of inner peace. This allows you to be specific about how you wish to spend your time and who you want to hang out with.

3) You Have to Believe Your Soul Mate Exists

You’ve done steps 1 and 2 and hopefully your soul is sensing the potential of a special soul mate. This is when the self sabotage is likely to kick in.

“I’ll never meet someone tall, dark and handsome. If I do, there’s got to be a snag. He’ll leave me, be unfaithful. I’ll get bored”.

The little self-sabotaging voice goes on and on until it wears down your positive expectations. What’s the outcome? You don’t meet anyone or you end up disappointed.

Be optimistic. Even if it feels weird. Look in the mirror and appreciate your beauty. SMILE : )

There is a soul mate out there just for you.